INFIDELITY

ASALAM ALEYKUM WARAMOTULLAHI WABARAKATUH

My dear sisters in Islam, I have discovered that men in general but Muslim and non Muslim have this problem of infidelity. When this issue is raised most Muslims tend to attach it to the male’s privilege of having more than on wife, but to say the truth INFIDELITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MARRYING MORE THAN ONE WIFE as permitted by Allah (SWT). INFIDELITY (ZINAH) is a dirty act distasteful act by Allah (SWT) and attracts big unimaginable punishment.  Also, the wives that realize and raised the issue is not a jealous wife NO she’s not, it’s her duty to protect her family from the wrath of Allah, cos any man that indulged in this act has automatically endanger the life of his family both physically and spiritually.
PHYSICAL RISK  – We have seen and heard of various diseases contacted through indiscriminate sexual exploit which most leads to untimely death.
SPIRITUAL RISK – Having extra-marital sexual exploit  spiritually kills good fortune of the man and eventually good fortune of his entire love ones.  Am sure most reader will like say ha!, Hmm or what, YES that is exactly what happens because most of this female of substance that indulge in indiscriminate sexual activities most times do with several partners, locking into herself (body) different spiritual threat she will transfer from one partner to another. This threats differ from one person to another but the common result in all this spiritual threat is utmost destruction. This man will think he’s enjoying himself, unfortunately his good fortune has been destroyed.
Secondly, indulging in this act spiritually attract the jins (evil spirit) they take over his soul and he continue to increase his indiscriminate act, moving from one lady to another hereby leading him to utmost destruction  and eventually wrath of Allah. I pray Allah (SWT) protect our fathers, husbands, brother and most importantly our sons from sinful act. Amen.
In conclusion, I will implore wives to pray  and pray not to be in this position, but if you find yourself in such position help them in prayer but most IMPORTANTLY HELP YOURSELF, cos you will need to shield you and your love one from the spread of this dangers.
I pray we are free from this entrenched ill act in our society and may Allah help women who are already in this depth, help bring them afloat and save us all from the wrath of Allah. Ameen.

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