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INFIDELITY

ASALAM ALEYKUM WARAMOTULLAHI WABARAKATUH My dear sisters in Islam, I have discovered that men in general but Muslim and non Muslim have this problem of infidelity. When this issue is raised most Muslims tend to attach it to the male’s privilege of having more than on wife, but to say the truth INFIDELITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MARRYING MORE THAN ONE WIFE as permitted by Allah (SWT). INFIDELITY (ZINAH) is a dirty act distasteful act by Allah (SWT) and attracts big unimaginable punishment.  Also, the wives that realize and raised the issue is not a jealous wife NO she’s not, it’s her duty to protect her family from the wrath of Allah, cos any man that indulged in this act has automatically endanger the life of his family both physically and spiritually. PHYSICAL RISK  – We have seen and heard of various diseases contacted through indiscriminate sexual exploit which most leads to untimely death. SPIRITUAL RISK – Having extra-marital sexual exploit...
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CHILDREN

How great it is to raise a child on Islam! Everything is explained in this beautiful deen! Learning can be fun and beneficial at the same time both for this dunya and akhira. See below some awesome Hadith which you can teach your child Milky Way And Rainbows Upon the authority of Abut Tufail who said: Ibnil Kawwaa asked Ali [رضي الله عنه] about the Milky Way so he replied: ❝It is the ‘Sharaj’ [broad opening to the heavens] and from it Allah sent water down in abundance [i.e during the flood of Nooh].❞ [Collected By Imaamul Bukhaari In His Adabul Mufrad, (766/589) | Sh. Al Albaani: ‘Saheeh’ | Translated By Abu Hakeem Bilal Davis] Upon the authority of Ibn Abbaas [رضي الله عنه] who said: ❝The rainbow is a safeguard for the inhabitants of the earth that they will not be drowned [as a form of destruction as in the time of ...
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MARRIAGE

Gentleness & Softness are always excellent.They bring about unity,love & peace.On the contrary,harshness brings about disunity & instability For husband & wife to live in harmony, they must admire & be merciful to one another.Further, she must respect him, & he must be kind to her Your husband deserves to be respected. Be obedient in good,  polite, keep on smiling, take care of his desire & stomach & avoid suspicion Your dearest wife deserves massive kindness. Be kind to her in everything: Feed her; cloth her; educate her; accommodate her; & pardon her. Ur Wife is neither a slave nor a housekeeper. She is ur companion that partakes in division of labour with U to establish an ideal family. Conflict is inevitable in marriage. Kindness, fair hearing, forgiveness, justice & softness bring about stability & harmony in marital life Wife is d shepherd of d household.Her responsibility is a huge one.She is an institution that produces all ...
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A Good Husband

QUALITIES OF A GOOD HUSBAND: from Islamic Research Foundation. Husbands with goals to Nurture Happy Wives… No one ever thinks about the characteristics of a Muslim husband. It is always what a wife should do for the husband...and the list never ends; home management, tutoring, ferrying the kids, caring, cooking, cleaning, washing, working even; you name it, she’s doing it, so what about the brothers? Our beloved Nabi SAW was not EVER lazy, so why the men of this Ummah? It is quite interesting, so I thought I'd share it with you!!! What a Muslim husband should be like... >Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time you went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Nabi (SAW) would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells. >Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the mo...
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Mothers

Today's Beautiful Hadith is about Mothers! Abu Huraira RA reported that a person said: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him), who amongst the people is most deserving of my good treatment? He said: Your mother, again your mother, again your mother, then your father, then your nearest relatives according to the order (of nearness). (Muslim - Book 32, Hadith 6181)! Look at the status of mothers in Islam. How comforting and wonderful :)
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When a woman is pregnant with a child, all the angels will make Istighfar (repentance) on her behalf. Allah SWT will, for each day of her pregnancy, write for her 1000 good deeds and erase from her 1000 bad deeds. When a pregnant woman starts to feel the pain from contractions, Allah SWT will write in her records as someone who is doing jihad (spiritual or physical struggle) in His path. When a woman becomes pregnant by her husband and he is pleased with her, she obtains the reward of a person engaging in fasting for Allah SWT and a person spending the night in ibaadah (worship). A woman from the time of pregnancy until childbirth and weaning the baby, is like the Mujahid (someone fighting in the path of Allah, swa) who is stationed on the frontiers of the Islamic land. If she dies during this period, she dies the death of a Shahid (martyr). Two raka'at salaat performed by a pregnant woman is better than 80 raka'at salaat performed by a non-pregnant woman. A woman who is pr...
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DAY 20

☆ ❋ ☆ RAMADAN DUA OF THE DAY ☆ ❋ ☆ ► DAY 20 - "Lock Doors of Hell" ALLAH, on this day my tears are falling and I beg you to lock the doors of hell fire for the entire Ummah of your prophet Muhammad ﷺ. Ya Tawwab we have reached the last ten nights of Ramadan. If today is Laylatul Qadr, I raise my hands to ask you to close to doors of Hell. The night of decree changes our fates. If we are destined for the fire, let tonight change our fates, and decree for us the destination of Paradise. Make mandatory Jannah for me and my families  and make prohibited the Hell fire O the Most Merciful of the Merciful! Ya Ghafur, protect me and my families from hell which the Prophet ﷺ told us will have 70,000 reins with 70,000 angels drawing it by each rein. Protect me and my families  from the hell whose fuel is people, jinn, stones and false gods. ❋ ► Protect me and my families from the hell fire which the Prophet to...
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