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MARRIAGE

Gentleness & Softness are always excellent.They bring about unity,love & peace.On the contrary,harshness brings about disunity & instability For husband & wife to live in harmony, they must admire & be merciful to one another.Further, she must respect him, & he must be kind to her Your husband deserves to be respected. Be obedient in good,  polite, keep on smiling, take care of his desire & stomach & avoid suspicion Your dearest wife deserves massive kindness. Be kind to her in everything: Feed her; cloth her; educate her; accommodate her; & pardon her. Ur Wife is neither a slave nor a housekeeper. She is ur companion that partakes in division of labour with U to establish an ideal family. Conflict is inevitable in marriage. Kindness, fair hearing, forgiveness, justice & softness bring about stability & harmony in marital life Wife is d shepherd of d household.Her responsibility is a huge one.She is an institution that produces all ...

A Good Husband

QUALITIES OF A GOOD HUSBAND: from Islamic Research Foundation. Husbands with goals to Nurture Happy Wives… No one ever thinks about the characteristics of a Muslim husband. It is always what a wife should do for the husband...and the list never ends; home management, tutoring, ferrying the kids, caring, cooking, cleaning, washing, working even; you name it, she’s doing it, so what about the brothers? Our beloved Nabi SAW was not EVER lazy, so why the men of this Ummah? It is quite interesting, so I thought I'd share it with you!!! What a Muslim husband should be like... >Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time you went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Nabi (SAW) would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells. >Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the mo...

Mothers

Today's Beautiful Hadith is about Mothers! Abu Huraira RA reported that a person said: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him), who amongst the people is most deserving of my good treatment? He said: Your mother, again your mother, again your mother, then your father, then your nearest relatives according to the order (of nearness). (Muslim - Book 32, Hadith 6181)! Look at the status of mothers in Islam. How comforting and wonderful :)
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When a woman is pregnant with a child, all the angels will make Istighfar (repentance) on her behalf. Allah SWT will, for each day of her pregnancy, write for her 1000 good deeds and erase from her 1000 bad deeds. When a pregnant woman starts to feel the pain from contractions, Allah SWT will write in her records as someone who is doing jihad (spiritual or physical struggle) in His path. When a woman becomes pregnant by her husband and he is pleased with her, she obtains the reward of a person engaging in fasting for Allah SWT and a person spending the night in ibaadah (worship). A woman from the time of pregnancy until childbirth and weaning the baby, is like the Mujahid (someone fighting in the path of Allah, swa) who is stationed on the frontiers of the Islamic land. If she dies during this period, she dies the death of a Shahid (martyr). Two raka'at salaat performed by a pregnant woman is better than 80 raka'at salaat performed by a non-pregnant woman. A woman who is pr...